There are times when we are in difficult situation, without knowing what to do. Problem hits us from all directions. Wanted to run but do not know where to run. Then we try to find what's wrong and start to blame others, situation, etc. It is natural. There is nothing to fear with the act, to be afraid is when we love the act.

My wise man said, to solve the problem you have to accept the problem, accept your natural reaction, let it plow for a moment. This is the best way for you to look the way behind the problem clearly. Sometime problems come not to be solved, but only to make our real problem becomes a little blurred.

Just skip some problem which not related to our purpose and focus on our concern but without run from them (accept for a moment only to feel not to solved). The problem that not our main concern will going away by itself and we will see the way for our main problem more clearly. Basically, solution comes when the problem comes, but another problem comes to make the solution hide.